Shall I Go for the Wedding Vows?

"to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish..."

Yah right, I am inside a big question mark right now but not involving any lost of affection for my husband to be. It's more of the current situation. Getting married isn't easy especially if you want to do it  in a way that can be truly cherished and remembered as the perfect moment for the couple.

No doubt how my man loves me and I just feel the same way for him. Liberated me - with or without the marriage vows I can settle with him. But if we really are pushing through it, it's either we can do it in the best way we can or in a more practical manner.

What I am trying to say is that if we really want to have the church's blessing then we might as well wait for the right timing when all aspects are absolutely set or we can simply have it civil where we will not be obliged to dribble away.

Doing both could be more unreasonable in a sense as it would mean double spending.

I don't care if I have already picked the date, there is a non-stop numbers to choose from but for now I just need a sign. Apparently I can't do these things by myself.