CC: How Did We Celebrate Being Together

Continuation from last post.

We do celebrate our monthsary which is of course every month just like teenage couples do. Hihi! However, the very moment after our most difficult encounter (so far) there was no extra special celebration that took place.

Things just get back to original, just like the ordinary days where the presence of sweet and kilig moments remains less the quarrel.

Even though it seems normal for us being together we treasure every minute of it. We just love each other that much and I hope that love stays with us and endures forever.

My entry for this week's:

Comforting Myself on Tax Deductions

If I am not an accountant, I guess it would be harder for me to understand why my net pay this time just got this small considering we have our annual bonus paid as well. It is as if I didn't work for half a month and all I received is a pro-rated incentive equivalent to 75% (prorated).

 

Sometimes I would like to show angst against the government and the administrators as here we are ordinary people working harder as we can and yet they are sitting on the senate with their colleagues arguing on the millions of money stolen from the fund contributed by us people.

 

Where are their conscience? I wonder how they can take it feeding their family from something they did not work on.

 

I firmly believe that this is indeed one of the reasons why our country's progress is still hampered and will remain this way unless the government will change in favor of the Philippines and its people.

Better than Last Week

At least I am feeling better now.
I can somehow taste the food I eat and smell the fume I have sprayed just behind my ears.
A lot far better than last week.
Maybe the medications I am taking are helping me somehow.
Sometimes you really have to seek professional medical advice for some of the illness that your feeling may it not be that really serious.
While there are times that cough and colds seem very ordinary you still need to give yourself some kind of special attention because it is your health which is at stake.

Controlling the Pessimist in You

There are times when I can help myself to becoming a pessimist and inhabit some negative thoughts. In as much as I wouldn't want to start a quarrel or even a petty misunderstanding, that attitude is pulling me into it.

 

More often than not it is better to keep myself quiet but I still have to control myself on sudden burst of emotion as it could also lead me to something worst - an impulsive flow of expressions through my sharp tongue.

 

Still I guess it's best to talk things out in the soonest possible and available time but make sure to thoroughly weigh in your emotions, to carefully think where your words could lead you, its good effects as well as its consequences.

CC: Back in Each Other's Arms

As some sort of a continuation from my last week's sharing, just after the comforting moments we end up sleeping in one bed.

Oooops... I know what you're thinking... Hehe!

Honestly, nothing happened that night maybe because we were too tired about the quarrel.

We just slept together embracing each other.

And when the morning came, we both get up happier than ever as if nothing awful took place.

Wink!

RT: Happy Birthday Lola

Happy Birthday Lola

Since Red is usually associated with birthday and so with that I would like to greet my grandmother a very happy birthday today.

I wish she could read this so she would know how much I love her despite me being hard-headed most of the time.

May you have longer life and a better health condition.

Thank you for raising me up. I also owe you  my life. I love you.

My share for: 

Moody Monday: Indulgent

Glad to have found a new meme for my Emotera blog. Well, I guess it's just right since it relates to each other.
Mood has really something to do with emotions.

This my first time here at:

While it talks about indulgent, I just would like to share about my cravings these past few days, and it is the:

Chocolate Almonds

I can't get myself to munch on something sweet as I currently have cough and my boyfriend says that it could aggravate the condition. So I guess I have to wait for few more days before I could taste another bunch of chocolate almonds.

Hmmn... Looking forward to it...

Sunday Stealing: The 5000 Question Meme, Part One

My share for this week's:





Cheers to all of us thieves!
1. Who are you?


I am a friend - friendship is where I am very good at.

I am a mother - to my one and only son Coi-coi.
I am a daughter - of my parents who have long been separated.
I am an employee - an accountant by profession, analyst by title, dealing with numbers.
I am a player - of my preferred sports, volleyball, basketball, badminton and table tennis.
I am singer - exclusively at home.
I am a dancer - a back-up tv dancer in my dreams.
I am a church servant - aspiring to be installed officially.
I am a lover - challenged by current relationship.
I am a blogger - writing is my passion and I love sharing thoughts.


2. What are the 3 most important things everyone should know about you?


That I am intelligent in thoughts but an idiot on emotions.
That I already have a kid and I love him so much.
That I am an overly romantic woman.

3. When you aren't memes like this one what are you doing?


Browsing through the pages of my facebook account.


4. List your classes in school from the ones you like the most to the ones you like the least (or if you are out of school, think of the classes you did like and didn't like at the time).


I love English and I hate Mathematics.

5. What is your biggest goal for this year?


House renovation.


6. Where do you want to be in 5 years?


At home with my own business.


7. What stage of life are you in right now?


Challenging stage I must say.

8. Are you more child-like or childish?


Childish at times.

9. What is the last thing you said out loud?


Marcus, stop!

10. What song comes closest to how you feel about your life right now?


If I'm not in Love With You.


11. Have you ever taken martial arts classes?


Yes, informal Taekwondo when I was in High School.


12. Does your life tend to get better or worse or does it just stay the same?


Hope it's getting better as I need to get really better.


13. Does time really heal all wounds?


Yes, before I thought I won't be able to get up from a heartbreak but now I am no longer affected.


14. How do you handle a rainy day?


When, I'm at home I get myself to sleep.


15. Which is worse...losing your luggage or having to sort out tangled holiday lights?


Losing luggage of course.


16. How is (or was) your relationship with your parents?


It's unfair. I usually show affection more to my dad.


17. Do you tend to be aware of what is going on around you?


 I should be.


18. What is the truest thing that you know?


That the Lord do exist.

19. What did you want to be when you grew up?


I want to be a good wife.


20. Have you ever been given a second chance?


Yes, I think this time is a chance I just take.


21. Are you more of a giver or a taker?


Giver I think.

22. Do you make your decisions with an open heart/mind?


I must admit not at all times.

23. What is the most physically painful thing that has ever happened to you?


The Caesarian Operation I had for my son to come out.


24. What is the most emotionally painful thing that has ever happened to you?


When my son's dad denied me.


25. Who have you hugged today?


My son.

FQF: Never been

Time again to answer:




1. Have you ever testified in court? For what?

Not yet. If ever, I guess I would be needing somebody to testify for me.

2. Do you still have your wedding dress?

I have never been married so I have not experienced wedding yet.

3. Is there a special place you like to go when you're happy, sad, stressed, etc.?

Yes. Since our courtship day and until now, my boyfriend and I have this special venue where we talk things out, build our dreams together and express more of our emotions.

4. If you have kids, do they sleep with you? If you don't have kids...will you let your kids sleep with you when/if you have them?

I have a kid and he sleeps with me every night.

5. Do you watch late night TV?

No, I am no TV fanatic that I even removed the TV set in our room.

CC: I Cried a River

The story I've shared on CC last week relates to current topic. The same instance has brought me so much of emotion that led me to shed a large amount of tears. With a lot of sentiments I cried until I came to the point of running after my breath. That is simply because of the thought of losing each other at that very moment.

Good thing he was there to comfort me despite having his own sense of awful feeling due to our quarrel. When I finally stopped crying that's the time when we talked sincerely and seriously until we finally get to resolve the issue.

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Sunday Stealing: The Burnt Toast Meme, Part Two

Cheers to all of us thieves!

17. Who would you like to show up at your door to say they love you?

My bossing mahal...

18. Last furry thing you touched?

Bath towel...

19. How many drugs have you done in the last three days?

Only a few... Just as for my dry cough...
20. Do you miss film or does digital work for you?

Digital works better of course...

21. Favorite age you have been so far?

Haven't been to my fave age yet....

22. Your worst enemy?

My conscience...

23. What is your current desktop picture?

A picture with my college friends.

24. What was the last thing you said that was funny?

That my boyfriend is so addicted to me when he was just trying to persuade me.
25. If you had to choose between a million bucks or to be able to fly what would it be?

A million bucks of course, with that I'd be able to fly.

26. Who can't you say “no” to?

Coi-coi for good things.
27. The last song you bought or downloaded?

Basta't Kasama Kita

28. What time of day were you born?

7:00pm I think.

29. What’s your favorite number? Why?

17 and 8. The first one was my old

30. Where did you live in 1987?

In my hometown. Pitogo, Quezon Philippines.
31. Are you jealous of anyone?

Sometimes.
32. Is anyone jealous of you?

Yes, my bf's ex.

33. It's been almost a decade. Where were you when 9/11 happened?

At my classmate's house back in college. We were doing our thesis then.

FQF: Mine is Black Really...

Now I am joining again the meme:




1. Do you know what your REAL hair color is?

For all I know, it's black... Two months ago, I had it colored in a salon with chestnust brown I guess.


2. Do you plan ahead for summer, or fly by the seat of your pants?

I want to spend few relaxing days in a beach.

3. What is your favorite meal to cook?

Filipino's famous Adobo.
4. Do you get offended by not receiving thank yous?

Not really. Giving is not expecting something in return.
5. How did you meet your best friend?

I met her in a college stairways on our first day of school back in Year 1998.
 
Happy to be back here and hoping to exchanging links with you guys.

Be Fair Please...

My blog Just for a Thought has now been transferred to another domain and hosting site. It gives me joy merely looking at its new face in its new home. I have been busy arranging all the stuffs related to it and even submitting it to some advertising sites.

Full of excitement, I exerted much effort on the very first site that gave me an opportunity but I was told by my friend that it is a bogus blog advertising site.

I have accomplished the post with all of the requirements and now I don't know if I will really be compensated by it.

Sigh!

CC: When We Thought its Over

I guess its more than a month ago since we had our hardest fight so far. We got into the point where I threw away his helmet after I asked him to stop the motorcycle, he left me literally alone in the dark (along the highway but he fetched me back) just because of few simple things that we've both misunderstood.

The quarrel started when I suddenly become quiet while we are in a night out. While we have not yet discussed things out, I opened it up to one of our companions during the night who happened to be (as we thought) one of his closest friends.

When his friend and me are already exchanging text messages on how my boss behaves at times, that friend  started to give me some advice which are really against him. I almost felt betrayed and fooled on that moment and made myself realized that at least it is still early for me to learn about boss' purpose on me. In short, I was influenced by those words from a stranger that I almost did not listen to him and got mad at him so bad.

Glad we were able to talk things out and settle the issue on the same night. After a week had passed, that's the only time when we further apprehended that we almost lost each other just because of some persuasive words from a person which were yet unconfirmed. From then on our bond became even stronger and agreed that we must talk about things first prior to listening to other people's opinion. At least we learned from it and we have surpassed the instance when we have thought that it was already over between us.

Since then we're not fighting anymore. =)

And now I am happy to be back here at:

RT: 3 Red Roses

Just would like to share with you a bundle of 3 red roses I got from the most romantic person last Valentine's Day.

Happy to be back here at Ruby Tuesday. Have Fun everyone!

I Know

I know you're silently watching me.
I know you're still interested hearing updates about me.
I know you're still trying to figure things out.
I know that you know things by now.
I know how much I have hurt you.
I know I need to thank you so much for everything you have done and given me.
I know I have been so unfair but I know it will be more unfair if I will just let things be.
I know I don't deserve your forgiveness but still I want to say that I am so sorry.
There's more to life than having me, than loving me and I am sure you also know that. 

UNDECIDED

It is March already, first quarter of the year is about to end.

Honestly, I am bored by now.

This boredom is eating me up.

I am no longer excited to go to office.

I am no longer keen to finish my tasks earlier than required.

I am becoming so impatient these days.

There are times when I just want to descend and drowned myself out of this crazy world.

I am worried somehow.

Yet I am still undecided.

I don't know what to do.

I am at blank.

I need signs, signs and signs.

Please wake me up - awaken my senses.