CC: Boss Isn't Appreciative

I love to cook. Kitchen is one of my favorite spots. Seldom that I failed in my cooking activity. Most of the time, what I cooked taste just right. But my boss isn't appreciative about it. He doesn't want to be asked about the taste of food. So I would rather not attempt.

But just last week I served him sauteed ampalaya (bittergourd)with egg for our lunch. That's the first time I heard him say that our viand was delicious. He ate a lot that time and that pleases me very much.

Even though he tends to say something lacks on everything I cook for him, still he takes more than I expect him to eat. That way I feel simply rewarded. Actions speak louder than words. Burp!

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CC: How Do I Annoy Him?

He usually gets annoyed everytime I would bite him; sometimes on his fingers, arms or shoulders. His wacky mood would also turn to its opposite if I would tease him of something about his past. Expect us to have petty quarrel when he sees me wearing dress with plunging necklines.

There may be a lot of things eventually leading to a non-serious argument but it is still better for me to avoid things that pisses him off and vice versa.

Perhaps it is even more important that you know each other very well and be able to determine which among the things you argue about are serious in its sense.

Wanting To Scream

Have you been in a situation wherein you have a lot of things to say but you just can't utter any of those words? In as much as you would want to scream what's in your thoughts sometimes there's something within that controls you.

No one wishes for the worst scenario. Instinctively, you don't intend to hurt other people's feelings. However, there are times when you just have to say a little of what's in your mind and keep a portion of it.

If I could only spill out these negative emotions then I would probably do it instantly. It's hard. It is as if I am being pulled apart again.

CC: Honey Are We Lost?

We haven't been lost together so far with our usual means of transportation - my boss' motorcycle. More often than not he makes sure that the directions are clear going to our destination.


However, there was this one time that we almost end up fighting. I meet up with my friends in a subdivision here in Cavite while he is still in the office. I asked to just follow when his work is done. I gave him the sketch through a text message. I have got no question from him so I was confident then that he knows the place. When he is about to go to my friend's place we do text while he is on his way. Right then I realized that he is lost asa he assumed that the address I have given him is not a subdivision so he stopped from somewhere. He was so annoyed then and so am I as I knew I have given him enough of information. Good thing I was able to control myself and did not even bothered to get back at him in a negative way. Instead I tried to understand him that he was already tired plus the weather is extremely hot that time. Also, he had no choice but to see me as he almost ran out of fuel and the budget is with me. Hehe!


When he get to see me, it was apparent that he's not in the mood but he had to compose himself as that will be his first time to meet my college friends.We tried to talk things out on our way home and glad that no one was so persistent. We just shared our points and both accepted our faults.


This will be my share for this week's:

Pessimistic Me Once More

Sometimes I wonder if it's me and my dirty mind who's at fault. Isn't it that I've got a fast mind to think ahead? I guess nothing's wrong with that but thinking the negative way was my usual problem. I don't know if it's because of lack of trust, or something that has to do with his history or was it brought about by my own experiences.

I hate arguments. I want to talk things out right away. I don't want any delay as that could even lead me to more negative thoughts. As such I tend to become too persistent and demanding yet I always long for understanding.

I need an assurance as I want to let go of this kind of character. I want to live again.

FQF: 5 Star Hotel Would Do

1. If you could change one thing about yourself what would it be?

Physically, I want myself to become slim this time as there really are a lot of things heavier person can't do.
2. Write about a time when you got lost.

I have not been lost so far.


3. Camping or 5 star hotel?

5 star hotel. Have experienced camping several times.

4. Have you donated blood?

Many times before.

5. Do you have a budget or do you 'fly by' most months?

I am usually out of budget and I am honest about it. =)

CC: When we are Getting Ready

If there's one thing which easily pisses me off that is if I waited longer than expected. I really hate to wait the same thing as I hate to be late. Very seldom that I came late in an activity, so when there are plans of going out or something even myself just going to office; I make sure that everything has been set - I have thought about the things to bring, what to wear and just about anything. Maybe it's because I became naturally forgetful so I really have to make plans ahead of time. Hehe!


Most of the time I am excited to go out with my love regardless of where we are going as long as I am with him.